Wednesday, December 23, 2009
A few things for the record...
Bullet style:
- Shawn said "Oh Great" last night and Annie copied him but it sounded like she had a thick scottish brogue. Did we ever laugh!!!! She is copying EVERYTHING we say so it is time to be careful as she repeated a few words that I had said that can't be written here!!!! As well, when something happens I say "AAAAAHHHHHHKKKKK" and she has started using that expression with the same amount of energy as I use when something happens that she doesn't like!!!! I am so thrilled that she is expressing her emotions and we are really encouraging it, whether they be sadness, frustration, happiness or contentment.
- If Mommy has a little burp, Daddy gets blamed by Annie EVERY TIME. I love it and we laugh hysterically after she does it.
- Annie is addicted to Elmo or "Lelmo". Thank you Ricci and Ozzy for the Tickle Me Elmo - she loves him!!!! The Elmo Christmas Countdown special plays at least twice daily in our house and we can sing all of the songs off by heart. Annie also gets very excited when Grover arrives - every time!!!!!
-Yesterday Annie said "Mommy...Me" as in "Mommy look at Me" for the first time. She was threading her legs through the back of her play chairs. Yes, she is very daring.
-Annie is helping in the kitchen. She says "see, see" and gets her play chair to stand on. She also says "stir" which means anything from helping beat the eggs to stirring the tofu stir fry on the stove the other night. Our girl LOVES to cook and that is great because we do quite a bit of it in our house. This is the first week that we have actually included her in the cooking process - before she had little jobs like arranging the drying rack and wiping the counters.
-The little play kitchen that we picked up in the summer is a wonderful thing. Annie eats her snacks on it and yesterday for the first time, she was using the oven part as an oven or microwave. She put her water bottle in it, closed the door and then said "Bing". We use the timer on the stove quite a bit so I wasn't sure which appliance she was using but was it ever cute!!!!
- Annie notices when new gifts arrive under the tree - every time. Our relatives and friends are sending us gifts through the mail and I open the boxes when she is napping. When she gets up she runs in and says "oooooooooooooo", noticing all the new pretty parcels under the tree. Interestingly enough, she isn't really interested in opening them yet - we may be in trouble next year once she figures out this is what you do with them!!! As for the tree itself, I went and found some unbreakable ornaments this year so that if the tree falls over, it is fine. I gave her some ornaments and curled some wrapping ribbon that are specifically Annie's ornaments. She takes them off and puts them on the tree at her whim. It is really cute. Otherwise, she really hasn't shown an inclination to climb it like Shawn was afraid of, rightly so as Annie will climb anything.
- Another new word is "nap". For a while now, Annie has placed her head on one of our pillows on our bed, pulled up the duvet and called out "BOOK!!!" . She then directs us to lay down beside her and read (yes, she is VERY bossy!!!!) so I know that I have been a good influence- about the reading that is, ha ha!!! Anyway, yesterday she curled up on the couch under a blanket with a pillow and said "nap" then "Elmo...Santa" so that I would put on her favorite show. This was after she ate a peanut butter cookie that she absconded from the cooling rack, ate the top of a hello dolly with the big rice spoon (which she removed from the rice maker), poked her finger into black cake AND poked her finger into a mincemeat tart. This was all done in a VERY short period of time because when the child is quiet, I KNOW I need to check into what she is up to!! Yep, she was on a sugar high and danced in front of the Christmas tree singing to herself for about 10 minutes before she "crashed" on the couch. It was hilarious!!! I couldn't help but laugh. Oh and when I caught her with her "fingers in the pie" so to speak, she gave me a Cheshire cat smile and said "mmmnnnnnn"!! So funny. Annie has a great personality and she has a wonderful sense of humour.
-All cuteness aside, she had her first two meltdowns in public because I wasn't following her directions. Annie threw herself down on the shop floors both times and screamed. I remained calm and chatted with her while she calmed down. The cool thing was, instinctively I didn't even care what people around me thought, only that my little girl was having a rough time and I needed to be there for her - even though I caused the problem by holding the basket the wrong way the first time and helped her steer the cart the second time!!! Annie has to do everything herself these days which is great.
-Annie is attaching to us in a very secure way. When I watch other children her age interact in public and with their parents, they are doing exactly the same thing as Annie. It is wonderful to know that our hard work to become a family is starting to pay off. When Shawn came home from China, she did regress but we expected that. It only took her a few days to come back emotionally to her present state. Great to see. Annie knows that we always come home and that Mommy and Daddy are here for her whenever she needs us. Now, if we can go out on New Year's Eve without issue, all will be well.
I also wanted to ask everyone to say a prayer, white light, whatever you do, for my Uncle as he heals from his double lung transplant and for our dear friend Terry who is healing from a quadruple bypass. They are both doing very well but a few extra prayers, positive energy etc always helps!!!!!!!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Sweetie...
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
HAPPINESS...
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Our first Santa Clause parade...
Glenn and Baxter joined us for the evening and the photo of Annie with her drink is at Noodle Box where we went for a pre-parade meal. The other photo is of her doing a "cheers" with her Dad's beer bottle and I didn't think that it would go over well!! Too funny. Anyway, a fun time was had by all. Hot chocolate and candy canes were consumed yet the little one was fast asleep by 8pm. She was EXHAUSTED. It was wonderful to watch Annie Isabel experience all the lights and sounds for the first time - still brings a little tear to my eye.
Monday, November 16, 2009
New bed~~~
I love this photo of Annie clapping and singing to her "splat" stuffy - thanks Daddy for the name. So very cute!! This child loves music!! I also love the fact that she likes to bring her books to bed with her. I AM a good influence in at least one way!!!!
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Conundrum...
Anyway, I am not sure what to do. The event is in the evening and I could put her to bed and then go out but I if she wakes up and we aren't here to comfort her - I just don't know. Shawn and I have been really good at alternating if we want to go out for an evening with friends or we have people here. We have had some movie and dinner "dates" in the evening after Annie is asleep so we don't feel as though we are missing out on couple time either. This is just an event that I would really like to attend and he will "happen" to be out of town. There are a few people that I would feel very comfortable leaving Annie with - even if she isn't!!Any thoughts?
Thursday, November 5, 2009
It's cold...
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Happy Halloween!!!!
This next photo is of our hospital id bracelets. You will notice that
Tomorrow morning I have a new job - putting it back together!!!
This last photo is of our cooked pumpkin tureen soup that we had for dinner. We also had pumpkin cheesecake and it was Yummy!!!! I put the pumpkin on the dining room table and Annie loved picking out pieces of pumpkin and eating them. The soup that we cooked inside was a coconut, swiss cheese and bread concoction- delicious with the roasted pumpkin.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Reporting in....
We were also trying to get some photos for a few gifts for a few special fellows in her life. These are the two best ones. Even though Shawn hated the hairband, Annie loved it and she has played with it every day since, putting it on and looking at herself in the mirror. Funny girl.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Happy Moon Fest, Thanksgiving etc etc...
Annie is wearing her Grandpa Ivan's hat. She loves to look at herself in her mirror when she put on "ats".
This is how hard it is to get a photo of Miss. She has her Fu dolly in her carrier but when it came time to take the photo, she came running towards me!!!!! Love the corelle dolls - thank you Auntie Colleen!!!!
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Photos...
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
A few things...
-Annie has now climbed to the top rung of her loft bed ladder by herself. This ladder is not a "children's" ladder per say and at the top, it is 6.5 feet off the ground. This child is not scared of heights but she can't figure yet, how to get down. Not a good scene for Mommy who likes her to figure her own way out of situations and I think Shawn's hair has become more grey over this one!!!! We may be taking the ladder off the bed and only putting in on when guests are coming!!
- I feel that I can share this now. On returning from China and the trauma that we dealt with there as well as the loss of my Mother-in-law (she died while we were flying back to Canada), I suffered from post-adoption depression. There is a staggering figure that 60% of AP's suffer from this but there is very little out there about it. Luckily, our agency was wonderful and set us up with some counselling and I felt comfortable talking to my Dr. about meds. Many people don't have these resources. A BC adoptive parent Elizabeth Elias has just written a memoir of her experiences with PA depression and I wanted to put it out there for others to see. The title is "Don't Call Me Mother" and it is available here . As a side note, I tried once to write about this on the "big Chinese adoption" yahoo list and the moderator wouldn't post my messages. I was in conversation with two other AP's at the time and their posts were blocked as well. Very interesting that this is a topic not many want to touch when sooooooo many suffer...
I am just glad that I was able to recognize and deal with it quickly as well as having a wonderful attachment therapist who took us on pro-bono because of all the trauma we had been through.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Weekend away...
Evening stroll. On the ferry.
Sunset. "Hanging" on the balcony.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
A hug...
Now I just have to get her to say "peas" after "up" like she does for Daddy!!!!!!
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Too bad...
Pink Leopards like to crawl and read books!!!! Can you see the ears on the top of the costume...
The bottom is my favorite photo, my cutie little leopard!!! Guess Annie will have to be a bunny this year because even though she and Mommy LOVE the princess dresses, Daddy says NO!!!!
Friday, September 11, 2009
Six months...
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Firsts...
*Annie spills her water from her cup quite a bit and I showed her the cloth to clean it up yesterday. When I asked her to bring it to me, she did. So tonight, I had her soup cooling on the counter and Shawn knocked it over onto the floor - chicken, noodles, vegis, tofu and broth everywhere. Annie went and found the cloth to help clean it up!!!
*Yesterday I asked Annie if she wanted to go "out" or stay "home". She said "ome" and we stayed home for the day.
*We use a blue cup to rinse Annie's hair when we are washing it. Tonight she put on a pout, took it out of Shawn's hand and threw it into the water!!! This child needs her hair at least rinsed every night as she has food in it constantly!!!
*Annie has two "baby dolls" one is hard plastic and one is a cabb.age patch of mine. These "babies" go everywhere and must eat with us. The funny thing is that Annie only remembers half way through her meal. We then go get baby, pretend to feed baby (Annie makes the slurping sound) and then the spoonful goes into Annie's mouth. It is very cute!!
* Shawn really snores loudly and Annie has noticed from day one that he makes alot of noise when he sleeps. So now when I ask if it is time to sleep, she makes a snoring sound!!!!!
*Annie will climb anything. She is not however, fearless. She works at it and does get scared but she gets herself out of whatever she gets into with our encouragement. She has a butterbox beside the couch so she can get on and off of the couch on her own.
* Annie is eating with a fork and she is eating out of a bowl or plate on her chair tray. At the end of the meal the bowl or plate is turned upside down and she hands me the empty plate with her fork/spoon on top. Annie then proceeds to finish eating her food from her tray!!! We are getting there!! She also loves to dip and her favorite sauce these days is honey mustard. It is adorable to watch.
* Annie's favorite word these days is "Uh-oh". It is so much better than "no". She uses it perfectly too.
There are so many other little things that happen every day. I am trying to capture them all so that I can write her story for her...
Saturday, September 5, 2009
Today...
Annie LOVES food, LOVES to watch us cook and ALWAYS wants to help. I thought maybe she could wait for a play kitchen until Christmas but it was just too far away. So I went on Used Victoria (my fav site these days) and found this kitchen with tons of goodies, the high chair (which is also a baby swing for dolly), a dolly, a princess doll bed with a canopy (it is in storage for later giving) AND a beautiful old doll stroller. All this for next to nothing. It was fabulous and Annie is having a blast with her kitchen. She has used her red ladle forever and mixed soup in any kind of "pot" she can find and then she feeds it to all the "babies", her stuffies and us. Yep, she is into her new kitchen. I love it because it is an 80's kitchen and it waxes nostalgic for me. Now I have to get some Ikea stools and.
Friday, September 4, 2009
Annie LOVES her quilt...
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
I might be winning the battle...
So I gave Annie a little grey stuffed kitty and this morning she started meowing for the first time. It was the cutest thing!!!!!! She is looking at her book right now that has kitties in it and she is meowing for her Daddy.
So, because his little Empress is showing signs of wanting a kitty he said this morning, "if I end up taking care of the cats, I am sending them back". Yippee, I think I may be winning the battle because whatever the Empress wants (no she isn't a princess!!) from Daddy, she gets. Stay tuned!!!!
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Annie's quilt...
Isn't it gorgeous!!! I pieced and sewed it together and then Teresa, a wonderful quilter, put the backing on and quilted it for us. She also wanted to give Annie a piece of fabric because she loved the whole idea so she added the binding as her contribution. It is quilted with hearts and stars - just lovely. The backing is the fabric that we sent to people and the beginning of Annie's book has that fabric and our wish for her, our darling girl. A huge thank you to Shirley and Teresa for giving me quilter Teresa's name. She did a beautiful job, we couldn't be happier. Annie loves it too and she cuddled up in it when I was trying to spread it on the floor. Now I just have to finish her wishes scrapbook... oh and then her lifebook, oh and then the special trunk I am making her for all of her precious gifts from China oh and... I better stop there. At least her/our photo albums are all complete now. And my Mom told me I needed projects. Yikes!!!!!